How Do You Heal After A Divorce? How do you heal after a divorce happens? You have a 100% shot of winning, if you don't quit. Even men and women that get divorced… In the middle of working so hard to save their marriage in our programs… Sometimes… Look like they lost. But then there's the people who just don't quit. They don't stop showing up. And they get their spouse back, who's been dating, living with someone else… We just had a man, 4 years divorced, who just bought a house with his ex-wife